Americans plan everything; marriage, children, college, retirement and vacations are all meticulously planned out. Research shows that 70% of Americans have life insurance policies, 55% have an estate plan or will, and yet preplanning your life’s celebration causes hesitation.
Why is this? Americans say memorial planning is a process that they are reluctant to begin.
Funeral preplanning doesn’t have to be difficult and should be considered, because every year over two million Americans are required to plan for the immediate loss of a loved one. The responsibility of planning a funeral while dealing with a loss is the most difficult time to arrange a memorial. Whether choosing a traditional funeral with burial or cremation, planning when in the troughs of emotion, often results in costly overspending, unnecessary stress and confusion.
Preplanning a personalized memorial helps to protect the financial future of your loved ones and recording personal wishes, grants families the ability to know exactly what their loved one wants.
To start the process contact Celebrate Me Home for a free Memorial Planning Guide. The guide is easy to follow and helps to keep all of your memorial wishes in one place.
Our compassionate Memorial Planners will walk you through every step of the process, helping answer questions and easing the process. Celebrate Me Home offers a free in-home, no-obligation consultation. A variety of memorial packages are available or you can choose from the a la carte menu to create a completely customized ceremony, one that fits your wishes and your budget.
Pre-planning is a very tangible act that anyone can do to not only take care of their family, but helps to make things as easy on them as possible when the inevitable occurs.
The subject of death and its inevitable end of life consequences has become social taboo. The idea of speaking about death, an imminent loss, or even a terminal illness cause people to resort to passing the information through whispers or worse…code!
For the silent generation, taking care of their dead was common place, and dealing with mourning and grief just came with the territory. The body of their loved one was lovingly cared for, dressed in their Sunday best and laid out in their home for days, without embalming. This was the only funeral option families had.
Over the last few decades families have slowly moved away from taking care of their own dead and sought the replacement of the sterility and industry of the funeral home. No longer did families handle all the details involved in memorializing their loved one. Instead they entrusted their loved one to the business of the funeral home. Inadvertently, changing the way we look upon death. Death and dying once thought of as common and a normal part of life, were now looked upon as an uncertain, unknown process. To be dealt with in a cold funeral home basement. Funeral and mourning rituals and the grief process became the same for everyone in every situation. The cookie cutter funeral was invented!
Now, the Baby Boomer generation, which is responsible for so many changes in their lifetime, again is changing our perspectives on death. The Conversation Project, death café’s and Celebrate Me Home were designed to help families feel comfortable talking about death. Most importantly discussing and documenting how one wants be remembered. Check out Celebrate Me Home’s FREE Memorial Planning Guide for help in starting the conversation.
Because of this, cremation is on the rise and expected to reach 50% of the population’s choice for body disposition by the year 2017. By choosing direct cremation and by-passing the traditional funeral, families are often at a loss on how to begin the process of memorializing a loved one.
Celebrate Me Home’s compassionate Memorial Planners help to make final wishes known and supports families in their time of loss. Creating your own memorial plan has proven to reduce families stress, help families find peace of mind, knowing they are following their loved one’s wishes, and reduces the risk of over spending due to grief. Contact Celebrate Me Home (203)221-6885, providing help and support to you and your family.
Once you lose your Mother, everyday is different. If you are a Baby Boomer, you were probably raised by a stay at home Mom. She took care of all your basic needs, eating, sleeping and cleanliness. She was responsible for your education, helping you solve a difficult math problem or making sure your homework was completed. She was your disciplinarian when you broke the rules and your accomplice when “Dad didn’t need to know.” She was a lot of things, and just one thing – Mom, and because she was “Just a Mom”, she probably never got the respect she deserved.
Now as an adult, with children of your own, you realize the importance and unconditional love only a Mother can have for her children. On Mother’s day, this can be especially hard when your Mom is no longer with you. Celebrate Me Home helps families create lasting memories; a memorial photo tribute is a way to gather memories and share them with future generations.
As a Mother myself, I realize all children to some degree, take their Mother’s love for granted. You can count the stages of your life by the relationships you had with your Mom. As a small child you cried when you were away from her. As a teenager anything your Mom did, said or wore mortified you. When you were a young adult she started to become your friend, and only when you had children of your own did you fully understand the complex love of Mother and child.
Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate Mom, whether she is with you, if she lives far away or if she has passed away. Celebrate your Mother by finding the gifts of her life- the values she instilled and the lessons she taught.
Another way to honor Mom is to celebrate all the Moms you know. Gather together and share memories and stories, favorite recipes and photoalbums.Celebrate Me Home helps to families create lasting life legacies. A living life celebration can be tailored to fit the unique personality of your Mom, her values and her family. Honoring your Mom and celebrating her life story.
No matter how you choose to remember your Mom on this Mothers Day. Remember, she’s your Mom; she loves you no matter what!
Celebrate Me Home, is a unique end of life planning service, providing guidance and support with all your memorial preplanning needs. The memorial planning guide is an invaluable resource, helping to record all your memorial wishes.
Planning your own memorial service in advance not only allows you to design and specify the type of service you’d prefer; whether it be cremation or burial, but it also provides peace of mind for you and your family – who should be celebrating your life and joyous memories, not worrying about all the details
Burialplanning.com recently reported the top 5 reasons to preplan your memorial.
1. You will have control. Wouldn’t you want to have more control over your live and death? Pre-planning provides you power to make decisions regarding how and where you’ll be laid to rest, what type of ceremony you would like, burial, and/or cremation, even what type of prayer cards and memorial stationery you would like, and a host of other considerations that would otherwise be left up to mourning-loved ones.
2. Loved ones in mourning frequently do not make smart financial decisions. Purchasing costly burial merchandise during times of grief often cause emotional overspending.
3. Personal views are changing the way death is being viewed. Different generations want different things. Baby boomers want a more individualized memorial service; Generation Xers may choose a “Greener” cremation/burial option; while most consumers are choosing the focus to be on their life story, not on the loss.
4. Preplanning helps to avoid debt. Frequently the children of families facing death are responsible financially for funeral, burial or cremation costs.
5. Death is a part of life. Death should be celebrated and prepared for, just like you would for a wedding, birth, college or retirement.
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Out With a Bang!
Walter passed away March 9, 2014. He was 81 years old. Walter’s obituary was humorous, inspiring and written by Walter himself! He had started writing his obituary years ago, where he left just a few blank spaces (his actual deceased date) for his wife of 59 years to fill in.
Writing your own obituary is gaining in popularity, with the help of Celebrate Me Home’s memorial planning guide, recording your personal thoughts and wishes is an easy way to begin the process.
Being true to honor the unique individual Walter was his family proudly placed Walter’s epitaph in the local paper and on Walter’s facebook page, right next to a picture of his favorite meal, schnitzel and beer.
Walter chose a simple memorial service and cremation, “since his wife refused to honor his request to be posed standing in a corner with a glass of Jack Daniels in his hand.”
Celebrate Me Home helps to inspire and support families in fulfilling their loved one’s final wishes.
Celebrate Me Home’s Out With a Bang! memorial theme is designed to represent the unique spirit of a loved one who enjoyed and found whimsy in life, and who always lived life to the fullest. It seems Walter, in his unique and creative way, left an indelible mark on the memories of his loved ones. Walter went out with a bang!
Celebrate Me Home’s memorial planning guide
The loss of a loved one is inevitable, followed by the feeling of grief, which is unavoidable. For some of us, our instinct might be to avoid it. Resulting in prolonging the grief we feel, sometimes extending it by a full year or more. Therefore, it is crucial to allow yourself to feel and express your grief from the beginning.
Learning to cope with grief can be challenging, but it allows us to put our loss into perspective and remember our relationships. Grief is a very personal process, but overwhelmingly research shows that memorializing a loved one aids in the process of healing.
You can ease your grief through pre-planning. By pre-planning, our Memorial Planners will help ensure final wishes will be met. This gives families the ability to cope with the loss and reminisce with friends and family.
Baby Boomers are thinking outside the casket and with good reason, since they have been pushing the limits throughout their lives.
A Baby Boomer’s Casket
The Baby Boomer or “Born To Be Wild” generation wants to leave their mark even at the end of life. Celebrate Me Home ™ is based on the criteria that the uniqueness of an individual’s life should be celebrated. Their Memorial Planners will collaborate with you to make your ceremony as unique as you are. For instance, a hippie requested his casket exterior be tie-dyed to reflect who he is.
Due, to our increased life expectancy we are able to dictate how we want to be remembered. The new trend in funeral services has allowed Celebrate Me Home to build a ceremony around the person.
There are many reasons to plan ahead when it comes to your funeral. Many times it’s a matter of getting your affairs in order, so your wishes are known and carried out – especially if you want those left behind to do something specific to celebrate your life.
Planning ahead for a loved one also allows you to be more present, and be able to enjoy memories and friendships instead of worrying about details or feeling like the entire event is a fuzzy memory, like Tiffany in this video.
Whatever your reasons for planning ahead, know that Celebrate Me Home can help you create the perfect send-off, for yourself or your loved one.
When it’s time to say good-bye to someone loved by so many, capturing the person’s spirit helps to celebrate who they are and why they matter.
Like this couple, many people make plans in advance so their families can grieve, heal and reflect on the individual’s life.
This woman wants to be sure people leave with good memories, not just tears and sadness.
If you need help creating a service that expresses personality, Celebrate Me Home can help with Memorial Themes. We will collaborate with you to create a very special celebration of life.
By definition, a celebrant is someone who is trained and certified to officiate over a ceremony. That ceremony can be anything – a wedding, religious event, a funeral, or a memorial service. Most clergy are considered celebrants since they perform religious ceremonies on a regular basis.
Celebrate Me Home Certified Life Celebrants are trained to officiate at memorial events and will collaborate to create a unique ceremony to Honor a Life’s Legacy™. This is more than just a funeral celebrant or master of ceremonies. CMH Celebrants work with our Memorial Planners as a team, the celebrant and planner create a personal and lasting tribute, either following a theme, or creating something completely unique and related to the person’s life.
CMH Celebrants are specialists with a sound background in the history of ritual, ceremony and funeral traditions for many cultures, traditions, and religions. The family or the pre-planner always has the final say on all plans; CMH is there to manage and execute the plan.
While the ceremony is being created, our Memorial Planners handle all details including obituary writing and distribution, memorial service invitations, memorial website, reception, funeral, memorial service, and even funding – much like a wedding planner.